The Birth of
Janae Michaela
(Jan-ay' Mik-ay'-la)
This baby was the biggest tease! I had
several bouts of false labor for two weeks prior to her birth. On April 26th I had been
having strong regular contractions for several hours at a time. They were exactly ten
minutes apart. I remembered that I labored with Jared up till almost the end with
contractions that far apart, so I was starting to wonder if I might be in early or pre
labor. I went in to the Dr.'s office to be checked and there was no change in my cervix. I
was a bit disappointed but it really was not my due date anyway so I accepted it and just
went on about my daily routine.
On Friday, April 29th Mike and I went out for dinner. It was the last day of his vacation
and we wanted to do something alone together. We ordered steak dinners, which was a real
splurge for us. While we waited and ate our salads, I got a strong contraction that
demanded notice. I looked at my watch and kept talking and eating. Exactly five minutes
later I had another one. This went on for 20 to 30 minutes. The waitress brought our
dinners and I just didn't know what to do. Should I eat something so heavy if I was going
to go into labor that night? I decided to have the waitress box the meal up to go. On the
way home the contractions just stopped. Oh was I mad then!
The rest of the weekend went by with some bouts of regular contractions that didn't get
strong. The worst part of this period of false labor was the uncertainty of it all. I knew
that I didn't want to risk staying at home too long this time after what I went through
with the last baby. I had peace in my heart about having a VBAC, but still with such high
parity and advanced maternal age I wanted to be careful.
At my regular appointment on Monday May 1st, the Dr. told me that there was very little
change in my cervix. I was still not effaced and only dilated to 1cm. I was really bumming
then.
By May 3rd, I was pretty sure that my labor was imminent. The contractions would come
regular and strong for a couple of hours at a time then go. I figured that it was going to
start up and go fast once labor really started.
On Thursday May 4th, I had been having strong
regular contractions all night. They actually woke me up. They were still
ten minutes apart but I really felt them. Mike decided to stay home from
work that day since my contractions were acting like they meant business. We
were preparing to go shopping to try to get the labor going. I was standing
in our living room with my purse on my shoulder ready to go out the door.
All of a sudden I felt a pop and my water broke. This is when I knew why I
was so big even though the Dr. and I both agreed that it was an average size
baby. I would feel her legs and bottom through my tummy and knew she was not
a large baby. I had a LOT of water!
It took me a few minutes to figure out what to put on to go to the hospital in. I had a
big baby quilt rolled up and I sat on that in the car. I threw on a nice spring
maternity dress and borrowed my little girl's sandals and got to the car as quickly as I
could. I kept thinking about Jared's cord prolapse and was praying that Janae's head be
in front of her cord. I didn't feel anything down there so that was a relief.
I kept hoping to feel her kick me on the way to the hospital but she was very still. I
started getting a little scared. I kept poking my tummy and saying, "Come on Janae
give mommy a little kick". She stayed quiet all the way to the hospital.
I conveyed my worries to the nurse in the labor room and she started getting the fetal
monitor ready as quickly as she could. Just before she strapped the monitor's belts on me,
Janae shifted and my tummy rolled like a wave. I was so thankful to see and feel her move!
Soon I was all belted with the monitors and waiting for the contractions to get strong
again. Guess what! They didn't.
The contractions were not real strong and still ten minutes apart according to the
monitor. The Dr. decided to start some Pitocin. I dreaded having my labor augmented. I had
Pitocin before and it made for a fast and furious labor filled with extra pain. I asked
them to hold off as long as possible to see if nature would do it on its own. It didn't.
When the Pitocin was started hours of contractions followed. My cervix didn't show much
change after several hours. Effacement took a long time. I most likely would have gone on
for two more days like that without Pitocin. They didn't want to let me go that
long with my membranes ruptured. After 12 hours of labor they gave me antibiotics through
IV to prevent infection.
When I was about 4cm dilated and the Pitocin was set at the highest level that I received,
the baby's heart rate started dropping during contractions and racing between them. They
soon turned the Pitocin down and her heart rate stabilized again.
By the time my contractions actually started producing real results I had been in labor
for many hours and was pretty tired. I finally made it to transition and requested a shot
of Nubain. I might not have needed it if I wouldn't have been so tired. I needed to zonk
between the biggies. It helped me though. I could zone out and relax between them. Soon
the miracle of birth finally decided to happen, and as I felt her drop and turn with a hard
contraction I called for them to check. Only 5cm. Soon, after several more hard and
painful contractions I started feeling the pressure and need to push.
As I felt her crowning and the desire to push became a life driven force that was almost
impossible to deny, my Dr. said, Sheri wait! Don't push! Oh I hate when they do that!
I tried to pant without much success, even tried to hyperventilate a little just to help
me stop pushing and had some success. Finally he had a clean surface ready for Janae
to arrive on and he gave me the A-OK. As usual, a grunt was about all I needed. A good
strong grunt no less, but what's all this stuff I hear and read about long periods of
pushing? I never experienced that. I felt the intense relief of the slight burning and
stretching of my perineum as her head emerged into the world. The Dr. suctioned her and
said "Sheri, look down here!" I did and soon all the pain was forgotten as I
witnessed once again the miracle of my child's birth.
Janae was extremely beautiful from
the first moment. Even with the dusky, purplish, grayish color that they always are at
birth, she was beautiful! As soon as she could get some oxygen in her little lungs she
brightened up to a beautiful bright pink. She was alert and those beautiful eyes of hers
seemed to focus on my face. Oh what a miracle! What sheer delirious delight! There is
nothing in life to compare to such a miraculous life-changing event! How I thank God for
each beautiful child he has blessed us with. Each is unique, as is each birth experience.
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